You walk into a bar, coffee shop, or restaurant. You survey the place, and instantly, you catch someone looking at you. So, naturally, you look at that person too. It is only later that you find out that both of you have caught each other’s eyes. So, what is the next best thing to do?
Do not be afraid. Having confidence in yourself will make it a lot easy for those from the opposite sex to notice and take a second look at you. Eye contact is just one of the many ways to attract an equally eager would-be friend or meet that special friend. It is prudent to note that straight eye contact is essential to establish a good connection with a person. When you make eye contact and hold it just enough to let a person know you are interested in them, they will feel a true connection to you and the biggest part, SMILE. Smiling is inviting.
When you practice good eye contact with smiling it will make for an enchanting connection. This connection is the of building a solid relationship and if both persons work to add kindling to small burning fire of interconnection it will lead to a passionate connection.
Romantic eye contact is a great way to ignite lost passion and intimacy. It is a good practice for a boyfriend and girlfriend relationships to continue to make good eye contact in the initial phase of their getting to know each other. Husbands and wives build great intimacy in their marriage if your gaze often into their partner’s eyes; that look lets the other person know it’s time for loving or they are sexual aroused. Sometimes, the bills the children have taken off a lot of sparks from married people. Therefore, it is important to keep the fires burning in your relationship by doing the simple things, smiling at each other, continuous eye contact, and meeting the other person’s needs. Sometimes, simple things mean a lot to the person that is seeking your attention and affections.
Looking through each other’s eyes during what seems like forever can make you both feel you are the people in the room. It is something magical about make great eye contact when to people are attracted to each other. Some people say it is like the universe has aligned and destiny is being fulfilled with you make a complete connection when that eye contact is made with your “soul-mate”. Direct eye contact also speaks volumes which words sometimes cannot fully convey. It expresses self-assurance and certainty about yourself and what you could do and bring to the fore of an impending relationship or in helping maintain one.
For single people who are dating or would like to date a potential significant other, it is important that when establishing eye contact, you let the one you are looking at notice and look at you too. Checking someone out is a non-verbal gesture that similarly means; I am interested.
As much as possible, after establishing direct eye contact, spend a considerable amount of time with the person you know you are interested in dating. Doing so enables you to express how much you value the other person.
What should you do if you are shy? Relax, take some deep breaths. Soon you will come to realize that words will just come naturally tumbling out of your mouth.
Here is a neat trick that one could easily do if they have difficulty maintaining that all-important eye contact. If you simply cannot look at someone directly, try looking at the middle part of the person’s face, specifically between the person’s eyes and eyebrows, just a little bit above the person’s nose.
Doing so creates the illusion and the impression that you are intently looking at the person directly. It could prove to be a little difficult later when you realize that you seem to be having a conversation with the person’s forehead, but you will get the hang of it.
A rewarding and new would-be relationship is in the works if you try to make an effort of seeing people eye to eye. Believe it or not, besides the eyes, there are other parts of the face that could be utilized to establish a potential romantic relationship. And just like the eyes, it does not have to be specifically physical. Try making use of your lips, especially if you are a female.
Applying lip gloss and occasionally biting your lower lip at certain points during your conversation after it is assumed that you were able to establish eye contact and that you are now on casual speaking terms – may attract further attention. If is psychology that men are attracted to red and women are attracted to blue. So, ladies put on some red lipstick and let your hair down. It also helps if you are in a light mood. Let a few fun, witty, and light jokes lose. This helps establish that your personality is just as great a magnet more than your eyes.
All in all, romantic eye contact is just the tip of the relationship iceberg. It is not the be-all and end-all of a would-be relationship. It is a good place to start for the unattached, though, when reeling in those prized catches. It is one good and effective way to maintain the fire of your long-term relationship for the already married. So, look into your partners eyes and fall in love again!